Really?
We are law-abiding neighbors,
And do what we’re asked to do.
But the rules on garden décor
Are far too extreme in our view.
We received a letter scolding us -
We did something we should not.
We placed in the front of our house
An occasional errant flower pot.
Container gardening as I see it
Is hardly equivalent to
A pink flamingo or garden gnome,
Though I think those are okay too.
In a place where nearly every house
Looks almost identical to the eye
To someone walking down the street
Or simply to someone driving by,
Or to me who has been known
To approach the driveway in my car,
Wondering why the garage door won’t open.
Did I push the button from too afar?
Then I suddenly look to the right,
And to my surprise I find
Our neighbor’s garage door is open.
Why, I think that house is mine!
Because Because we have small garages
With little extra space on the floor,
There is very little negotiating room,
Once two cars are inside the door
Yet, we’re required to keep our trash cans
Inside the garage where our cars dwell,
And in the heat of every summer,
It creates quite an unpleasant smell!
So maybe you can understand
Why there’s a flower pot near our stoop
Where we can deposit as we pass by
Our daily bags of doggy poop.
The other flower pots lie dormant
But will come to life in the spring,
Waking from their long winters’ nap,
Hues of vibrant colors to bring.
I know it’s hard to standardize
And to make one rule fit all,
So that fairness is universal,
And nothing’s left to judgment call.
But freedom of expression
We Americans hold very dear.
Why do we need to be so uniform?
What exactly do you fear?
Individual expression
Helps to make one’s house one’s own.
Adding a personal touch
Turns a house into a home.
“Stepfordizing” neighborhoods
Lacks character and appeal.
Would allowing more flexibility
Really be such a terrible deal?
Purple houses or pink flamingos -
Perhaps that could be understood,
But flower pots - a violation?
How is that for the greater good?

Fred Cullum
2:20 pm on Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Very well said!!!!
Ron Coleman
3:25 pm on Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Sounds like Bulle Rock.
Lost in HdG
5:42 pm on Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Put some plastic flowers in it!
Ruffin
5:59 pm on Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Doesnt surprise me about Bulle Rock, as it really is not the most desirable place to live as was hyped in Harford County. The monthly HOA fees border on gouging as fees continue to rise absorbently, with no end in sight. I would never encourage anyone to move to Bulle Rock.
Steve Oleszczuk
8:11 pm on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Gouging like the taxes we pay To the City of Havre de Grace for nothing????????
John Krause
5:34 pm on Thursday, February 21, 2013
Would you care to provide the facts on the gouging of HOA fees and how much they have gone up in the past few years? Spoken as a resident or based on what someone else has told you?
It is my opinion that you get what you pay for in life and I have been on both sides of the HOA discussion.
What would you consider the most desirable place to live in Harford County and then tell me what you have to pay to get it. The two normally go hand in hand.
Nothing in life is free and quality of life and community mean a lot to many people here.
educated consumer in Bel Air
11:53 am on Monday, February 25, 2013
absorbently? Is there an excess of water in Bulle Rock? I think you mean exorbitantly.
spelling, my dear, spelling. you don't sound nearly as intelligent as you think you do when you mispell/misuse words.
DGriffin
8:11 am on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
We needed to move to Md because of work. Came to see Bulle Rock, among some other houses in Aberdeen; we picked Bulle Rock. It is absolutely ridiculous, all the rules and the HOA (of course you find out, AFTER you got a mortgage payment) HOA do not want you to plant 'anything' either only in your backyard.
John Krause
5:40 pm on Thursday, February 21, 2013
Did you really think a community of this size didn't have rules to keep things in order and looking as good as it does. Most residents have no idea what it takes to manage a community of this size and scale to keep everyone happy. It is quite a task and no matter what you do, someone will not be happy. Just the nature of the beast as they say.
How many rules really keep you from being happy here. Think about no rules and what happens when you live next to that neighbor who does all of those things the rules help to control.
I can only say that if too many rules were critical to your decision, the information was available for you to review.
JohnnyB
9:10 am on Monday, February 25, 2013
When you bought your house, you were supposed to have been given a copy of the HOA Rules and Regulations, well before you sign a Mortgage or go into settlement. This is Maryland State Real Estate Law. There is a form that you must sign, before you enter into settlement, that states that you have read and fully understand the covenants of the HOA of which you are about to become a member of. IF it did not happen this way, and you DID NOT sign this form, I would suggest contacting an attorney who could pursue this matter further. However, if you did sign this form, and you were given the opportunity to agree or disagree with these covenants, then you are the only one responsible for buying this property under these conditions. The covenants of an HOA serve a meaningful purpose. It helps to keep your property value up, it stops those who would want to make their home into a business place from happening, and services like Trash Pickup can be gotten at a lower rate due to the bulk of an entire community subscription. Landscaping crews are paid, streets are paved, street lights, parking lot striping, clean-up crews in the Spring, and many other functions of an HOA help to keep your community in top shape.
Poop 4 you HOA
8:34 am on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Drop off the poop at the HOA offive
Patricia Didden
8:40 am on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Read the rules. Knew before we moved in. Our choice. Love it. You should put your energy into hoping more houses sell. What did you think when you moved into an HOA?
Pennye Perez
10:17 am on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Thanks for your comments. I, for one, have spent a considerable amount of time reading the codes and subsequent amendments. When we moved here in 2007, revisions to codes were difficult to find and to track. The current management has done a far better job of organizing the documents and posting updates on the Bulle Rock web site. The original wording stated that "No tent, trailer, decorative lawn ornament, fence, shack, barn, pen, kennel, dog house, stable, storage shed or temporary structure of any kind which is visible from the street or another Living Unit may be erected . . ." That left in question the definition of a "decorative lawn ornament." The code was recently amended to further state "...exterior decorative objects are not permitted in the lawn or landscaped planting beds in front and side yards." Thus, my flower pots are now in violation. My point is not to argue that we don't need rules. My point is to raise awareness that overly restrictive rules serve no purpose and may, in fact, as some of you have indicated, deter sales. Overall, Bulle Rock is a pretty great place to live.
Steve Oleszczuk
4:55 pm on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Very Well said Patricia. The only down fall of Bulle Rock is being part of the backwards city of Harve De Grace.
Jessica
9:43 am on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
All I can say is . . . you knew the rules when you moved in! If you did not, you certianly should have asked. You can not expect them to change the rules for you, because you dont like them. Personally I would NEVER live anywhere with an HOA. I dont see the hype in being charged extra to have people tell you what to do with your own property . . . . But thats just me. If you dont like it MOVE OUT :)
Andrew
3:33 pm on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
From the response it seems as though the rules were changed AFTER they moved into the neighborhood. And for those of you who scream ZOMG!!!11!!! Teh HOA's are ruining everything!1!111!!! Go ahead and move to Houston where they don't even have zoning. Your neighbor can open a strip club or convenience store next door to your house and you have zero redress. Or go to Cecil County where there are many roads with a nice, well maintained house and next door is some hillbilly with their washing machine in the front yard. Lovingly accompanied by the last three cars belonging to the family, carefully balanced on cinder blocks.
Jessica
4:13 pm on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
I dont care for Houston or strip clubs! lol
Jessica
4:16 pm on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Also I do think its very unsanitary to have to leave your trash in a garage as was mentioned in the post. Thats gross. It may help to compost and recycle . . . if they allow you to do so. I'm guessing it would be a big NO on the compost bin?!
John
2:18 am on Sunday, March 3, 2013
Steve, if you are going to insult the city you so willingly moved to, please learn to spell it correctly. Bulle Rock CHOSE to keep their gates up, so they forfeited city services. You are certainly free to leave this backwards city.
Poop 4 you HOA
10:21 am on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
We did move and you never own the property.
Steve Oleszczuk
11:47 am on Sunday, March 3, 2013
John what would even be better if Bulle Rock, unannexed its self. Leaving the city without all that tax revenue that the get for NOTHING!!!!!!!!
Ron Coleman
5:02 pm on Wednesday, February 20, 2013
@ Andrew....You are 1000% correct. If You dont't have rules you will have trash. Bottom line.
Pennye Perez
10:04 am on Thursday, February 21, 2013
We all need rules to keep us from running amuck. What we don't need are overreaching regulations that squelch any expression of individuality. The rules at Bulle Rock have become more restrictive since we purchased our home. Initially, it was understood that one could put any exterior decorative objects in the rear yard as long as they were not placed on the lawn (for maintenance purposes) and were out of sight from the front of the home. Now any such objects are limited to "three (3) in number, do not exceed twenty-four (24) inches in height, have a diameter no greater than eighteen (18) inches and not in an area subject to lawn maintenance." There goes my idea of installing that 29' Roman Chariot Fountain. (kidding, of course)
steve
3:06 pm on Thursday, February 21, 2013
Pennye the original rules did not alow any. It was changed to 3. Read the rules.
Pennye Perez
4:22 pm on Thursday, February 21, 2013
Steve, notice that I said, "It was understood." You are correct that the written language prohibited ornaments, structures, etc. which are visible from the street or another Living Unit. Visible from "another Living Unit" pretty much encompasses all backyards in the whole neighborhood. However, until they put in the specific language regarding measurements, it was my understanding that this was not strictly enforced. If I am wrong, I stand corrected.
John Krause
5:46 pm on Thursday, February 21, 2013
Penny,
Read it again and you will see that the quantity of 3 is "without" any special permission. If you would like anything else in the yard, you just need to submit it and have it approved. A simple and quick process.
It really isn't as much about restriction as it is management. Look closely at the house at house just outside the gate with the entire yard filled with enough things to make it look like a junkyard. I'd rather have a few restrictions than live next to that.
Enjoy the good things about being here because there are many!
Pennye Perez
6:19 pm on Thursday, February 21, 2013
John, I have read the rule so many times that I will soon be able to quote it verbatim. I understand the rule. I just don't agree with it. There are indeed many wonderful things about Bulle Rock that I enjoy. I have also sat on an HOA board, albeit smaller, and in my professional life I manage 50 people, so I am well aware you can't please everyone. I think we will just have to agree to disagree on this one.
Angie Cramer
10:23 am on Friday, February 22, 2013
I think that the majority of those of us who chose Bulle Rock home ownership (we had our house built here in 2006), we get frustrated by the focus on what would appear to be the inane, while there are other glaring infractions and violations by those who live here but are not homeowners. We also "knew" the rules before purchasing, however, they keep changing and it's hard to keep up. I like having an HOA to keep the community "managed" because I don't want to live next door to a strip club or cars up on blocks. However, I don't like having to remember whether it's an odd or even month, nor whether my pansies in the front yard will invite a letter of tsk, tsk. There are bigger fish to fry in this community, and I for one, am willing to live here because this is my dream home and I wouldn't dare want to leave it, so I put up with it, and for the most part, keep my mouth shut.
Pennye Perez
6:07 pm on Friday, February 22, 2013
Amen to that. I wholeheartedly agree. I too have kept my mouth shut until now. Being reprimanded for flower pots sent me over the edge.
mudcat21
1:44 pm on Friday, February 22, 2013
If you want to see what happens when an HOA doesn't have rules, go look at the older areas in the Hollywood community in Aberdeen. Looks like a mess.
Pennye Perez
2:50 pm on Friday, February 22, 2013
Thanks. I repeat. I am not against rules. I am just against this one particular rule which I think is too restrictive. If a person wants to put a garden flag, a wind chime, or a gnome, or a some other garden decoration in their front yard mulch, they should be allowed to do so. I have seen these very items in front yards in our community from time to time. I have none of these. I don't consider a flower pot a garden ornament. A gnome or a garden crystal ball is a garden ornament. A flower pot is simply a container garden for flowers. I only have 3 or 4 flower pots that I fill with flowers in the spring. Mulching around them should be no more of a problem than mulching around plants. Since we are not allowed to have separate storage sheds, finding space for them in our small double garage is a problem. I did not realize that my flower pots were in violation until I got the letter. I didn't knowingly violate the rule, but now that I have, I am simply voicing my opinion. Many people like to summer their indoor plants outdoors during the spring and summer. They place them on their outdoor decks or patios. If these plants are in the open and not out of sight within a closed courtyard, are they in violation if they don't meet the measurement rule?
Steve Oleszczuk
6:26 pm on Friday, February 22, 2013
Then stop crying and work to change it.
Pennye Perez
6:54 pm on Friday, February 22, 2013
The purpose of this blog is to raise awareness and determine if there is enough consensus to move forward. I haven't shed one tear.
JohnnyB
11:27 am on Sunday, February 24, 2013
here is my comment
JohnnyB
11:36 am on Sunday, February 24, 2013
You can have HOA rules changed, but it takes a 2/3 vote of the entire HOA community. If you can get 2/3 of your community to agree on anything, I want to vote you into office as the new leader of the free world. It is an impossible task.
Someone With A Brain
5:52 pm on Sunday, February 24, 2013
You folks are pathetic.
Steve Oleszczuk
7:00 pm on Sunday, February 24, 2013
Who really cares what you think?
JohnnyB
9:16 am on Monday, February 25, 2013
The Rules of the community may sound harsh or ridiculous to some. Yet, the purchase of a home is one of life's most recognized personal achievements. If you stop to think about it, wouldn't you want to make sure your property and community remains in the same appealing condition that enticed you to purchase and reside there also? It is unfortunate that some rules may seem too stern, but if one rule is bent, then another can follow, and another. It has been my experience that if you bend-the-rules, someone will take that as a Free For All sign, and begin other paths of their own that will only deteriorate the entire spirit of an HOA. An HOA is not your enemy, it is a tool and structure that is meant to protect your, and everyone who purchases within your community, investment.
Ron Coleman
3:13 pm on Monday, February 25, 2013
This has turned in to being a mean patch for some reason. The lady was just making statement. Also, it's funny the grammar police showed up. Lol. Look at what you're typing before you put people down. Mr. Educator. Capitalization. You should try it.
Pennye Perez
3:29 pm on Monday, February 25, 2013
Thanks, Ron. I agree. This has turned into a mean patch rather than a productive discussion. I didn't even make the "absorbently" comment, but I understood what that person was trying to say.
Ruffin
8:30 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013
I agree with Ron and Pennye in the tone of the patch on this topic. I miswrote the word by mistake and should have recognized it. It is fine to disagree, but when personal attacks are made then the intent changes. Pennye made some very good points in her comment, and I appaude her for giving her opinion.
Fred Cullum
11:01 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Maybe this blogs and even the news stories should have a cut off period for comments. It seems that the longer it goes and the more comments there are, things usually turn ugly. Many of the stories have hundreds of comments from the same handful of people re-hashing the same comments over and over.
Fred Cullum
11:02 am on Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Should say these not this....
Pennye Perez
12:21 pm on Wednesday, February 27, 2013
I agree. We don't need to beat a dead horse. I think anyone who reads The Patch and wishes to comment one way or the other on this topic has already done so. Thanks to everyone for their comments.
Steve Oleszczuk
10:39 pm on Thursday, February 28, 2013
Bulle Rock that is
George Helm
11:47 am on Sunday, March 3, 2013
Lived in Houston for 15 years and had to come to Md. because of a job transfer. Houston and Texas has it all over Maryland hands down!
Kelly Laubner
12:51 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013
Pennye,
I also wanted to say that I loved the choice of voicing your opinion in poetry.
Pennye Perez
11:07 pm on Sunday, March 3, 2013
Thanks, Kelly. It was an attempt on my part to infuse a little humor into an expression of frustration.