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First Same-Sex Couple Weds at Harford County Courthouse

The Civil Marriage Protection Act took effect in Maryland Jan. 1, 2013.

 

One same-sex couple wed in Harford County Circuit Court on Jan. 2, according to Clerk James Reilly.

David Wilhelm and Casey Annon were married at 1 p.m. in Bel Air, Reilly said, on the first day the courthouse was performing same-sex ceremonies.

The Civil Marriage Protection Act took effect officially on Jan. 1, after Maryland voters upheld the law legalizing same-sex marriage in November.

Since state offices were closed for New Year's Day, Wednesday was the first time couples could marry inside the Harford County courthouse.

At least one other same-sex couple has married in Harford County. Havre de Grace City Councilman Joseph Smith and Havre de Grace native Don Starr wed in a Jan. 1 ceremony.

Smith and Starr obtained their marriage license from the Harford County Circuit Court last month after Maryland Gov. Martin O'Malley said officials could issue the licenses in advance, noting the effective date as Jan. 1, since offices would be closed for the holiday.

Harford County has had eight applicants for same-sex marriage licenses since it began accepting applications on Dec. 12, Reilly said Jan. 2.

As circuit courts across Maryland prepare for the first same-sex couples to wed, some public employees have pushed back. Deputy clerks in St. Mary's County have asked to be excused, citing their religious opposition to same-sex marriage, according to The Washington Examiner.

In Harford County, Reilly said there has not been any issue at the Circuit Court.

Said Reilly: "My staff and I are here to serve the public as the law requires."

Annapolis Patch editor Anna Staver contributed.

Related Topics: January 2013 Week In Review and same-sex marriage

Reece Street

8:16 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

I suppose the courts do not have any option about license issuance, but does the ones that are authorized to perform the ceremony have any options.?? Surely they do and any Christian that is asked to perform the ceremony, can refuse....

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CB9678

12:18 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

yes, did you bother to read the ballott wording??????

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Roger

12:30 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Since we are talking about a civil ceremony, I very much doubt that there are any options.

Bel Air Native

8:28 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Congratulations, David and Casey!!!

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jesse

9:04 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Congratulations to both couples that married this week!! May you have many more happy years together!
To Reece Street: I am sure that there is some type of provision that allows for those employees that object per religious beliefs.

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Bob

9:26 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

I would hope there is no provision Jesse. State employees are paid to fulfill their civic job responsibilities. If that employee refuses to perform what is required of them, hey should be dismissed.

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CB9678

12:18 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Only provision for a religious organization.

Terry

9:26 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Next thing you know people will want to marry their pets...................

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Bob

9:33 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

We were waiting for you Terry. Thanks for your contribution.

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Your Mother

6:38 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

and there you have the ignorance prevalent in Harford County... as backwards as Alabama... might I suggest you move there Terry... the rest of civilization would like to move forward

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Laura

4:25 pm on Friday, January 4, 2013

Two consenting parties = same sex marriage, and hetero sexual marriage and interacial marriage.
One party unable to consent = marrying your pets, inanimate objects, underage children, slaves and women who were raped (which the bible is for)

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Wayne Earl Jones

4:25 pm on Friday, January 4, 2013

You know Terry, gerbils would probably be a popular choice amongst those falling under "that" persuasion. . .

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Sal

12:34 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

Terry, did you ever notice when a far left liberal is disagreed with, they become name callers, condescending and critical in a lowly manner? Gay marriage is not a traditional marriage, it is a partnership, although the law says different.
I would like to know in a so called gay marriage who is the husband and who is the wife and who decides? Also in a traditional marriage there is procreation and please don't tell me about adoption and invitrio whatever.
This is another great example of our lowering of morals and values like in the Fall of Rome. they say if you don't learn from history, you will live to repeat history and I am sorry to say that is what we are doing.
One question, and I don't mean to be critical or sarcastic, things lke this you used to be called queer; where did gay come into this? Sal

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Casey

5:26 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

Sal - In most gay marriages I have seen, the typical roles of husband and wife do not apply. That does not mean it is less of a marriage, it is just different. As for procreation, there are many heterosexual couples who cannot procreate. Should they not be allowed to get married?

Marsha Tarbert

9:54 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

So because you work for the state or county you no longer have First Amendment Rights of Freedom of Religion? Baloney

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Bob

10:18 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

So Marsha, lets say you are a state employee and prefer to conduct business in your fluent non english language, even though speaking the local language is a requirement of the job? Seems to me that behavior would not get the job required of you to be performed properly.

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Karl Schuub

10:34 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Are you more interested in shoving it in everyone's face or actually having gay people marry? If there are two folks in the civil service office and one objects, while the other does not so there's someone there to fulfill that duty and nobody is denied why do you care? You don't win hearts and minds by being a dyck face about everything.

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Bob

11:02 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Because Karl, there are not always 2 people to perform one job in every office. If we did, we'd surely have taxpayers complain about overspending.

...And the last thing I want is your heart because you have repeatedly shown to not have one.

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CB9678

12:18 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

OK I object as a teacher to teaching bigots.....Can I do that????? No I must teach all people even if I do not approve of it.....same concept here!

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CB9678

1:42 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

MArsha you surender your right to not do your job on that basis. You are an agent of the state who can not discriminate. If you can't do your job because of your religious beliefs.....find another job!

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Dadof2

2:29 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Marsha... the First Amendment is a very important part of our history, and in many ways, is the foundation for what our country stands for. However, if a religion were to state that a (male) husband can/shall put his (female) wife to death for not bearing a son, would you be in favor of allowing the husband to sacrifice his wife in the US? I would hope not, and therefore, there are interpretations that need to be made.

The employee's of the Circuit Court of St. Mary's county are Maryland state employees. Those that CHOOSE not to perform the duties of their job are NOT required to remain employed there. They can seek employment elsewhere. And, I would go so far as to say that if they REFUSE to do the job that their position calls for as a deputy clerk, as a representative of our State government, their employment should be terminated.

chris cottoerflod

11:23 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

You think they went to chick fil a afterwards? Ahh yuk yuk yuk yuk

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Marsha Tarbert

11:37 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Bob, that is BS and you know it. It has absolutely NOTHING to do with Freedom of Religion. And yes, I think Bill of Rights trumps state law.

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Bob

11:59 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

I only drew that parallel for you because they are both first amendment rights

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CB9678

1:42 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Bill of rights does not limit the power of the state government from a Conservative view. Secondly if we accept the premise that the state can not force an individual to violate their beliefs than the Justice of the Peace, who is an agent of the state can not fail to provide you with the due process at the court house and execute your marriage liscence because of her religious beliefs. In their role they are the state! As has been said if they can not preform those duties.....get a new job!

Roberta

11:37 am on Thursday, January 3, 2013

I'm so excited for both couples....CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU BOTH!!!

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Marsha Tarbert

1:16 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Please, don't EVER think you need to draw parallels OR conclusions for me.

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Chrystie C-S

2:29 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Do some of you have nothing better to do?

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Marsha Tarbert

2:29 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

CB9678, if your spelling, grammar and sentence structure are an example of the "scholars" being indoctrinated in the Harford County schools, we are worse off than I thought. PS if you are a teacher, shouldn't your butt be at work instead of blogging?

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CB9678

10:48 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

My butt would love to be at work; but my butt is sick! So Marsha do you believe a Catholic judge has the right to not grant a divorce because it is against their religion?

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Nick

5:49 pm on Sunday, January 6, 2013

@CB9678 Why even waste your time with this extreme zealot? You will never change her mind. When you work for the state you have to follow the law of the state. If you don't like it you forfeit your job. That she can't or won't see that just proves how stupid some people can be. Save your time and energy for someone who can engage in meaningful discussion.

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CB9678

12:34 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

Nick I figured she was simply a troll when she resorted to personal attacks instead of debating the merit of the point. Her inability to reply after that has further demonstrated that!

Ashley

2:29 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

If they are in a state job and refuse to perform their job because of "religious" views then they should be dismissed. It's like the pharmacists the refused to fill birth control or plan b because it conflicts with their religious views. You don't have that luxury when you are a civil servant. When you serve the people your personal views need to be set aside... or you need to find a job in a different field.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

That works until the government takes control of the private sector and creates laws to regulate private businesses, including preventing pharmacists from refusing to fill plan b (which has been proven to cause abortions in some cases).

Ashley

2:29 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

And on a happier note: Congratulations to both couples that got married!

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Lisa Nickerson

2:29 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Congratulations!
I'm sure there were folks who "had issues" when folks of different races or religions were finally able to marry in the past. Love is love. Folks have the freedom to move on to another job any time they feel as though the job description is no longer right for them.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

Homosexuality is a behavior not a race!

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Casey

5:26 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

AllStar - Homosexuality is a sexual orientation, not a behavior.

hms

3:03 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

I just want to say " Congratulations " to you guys. It's about time people realized that it doesn't matter who you love. It's about happiness, and I wish you a lifetime of just that.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

One can love homosexuals without approving of homosexual marriage! The only true happiness is found in the next life.

Steve

3:03 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Congratulations to them! After they were married the Sun still rose in the East, the World is still turning...

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sp0t

4:09 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

I was going to post a rant about the Establishment Clause and the absurdity of the idea that religious beliefs somehow trump the law as well as the duties of a Clerk in (of all places) the state judicial system but I think you've summed things up rather well.

Suzanne

4:09 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Have to wonder, are those who object to doing their employment duties with same-sex couples also refusing to do their job when it involves divorced people? Or have they just selected one particular group of 'sinners' about whom they object? Sounds like bigotry not faith to me. They should get a new job.

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sp0t

4:31 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Well at least we can rest assured that these objectors aren't eating our sinful Maryland shellfish... after all, according to Leviticus the penalty for any violation is death.

tack8

4:09 pm on Thursday, January 3, 2013

Congratulations to all the couples !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Pamela

1:00 am on Friday, January 4, 2013

I can not believe that this law passed in Maryland! Nauseating! (and God bless Chick-fil-A!!)

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Casey

10:07 am on Friday, January 4, 2013

Thank you Maryland for affirming the legal equality of ALL of your residents!

Cassie

10:07 am on Friday, January 4, 2013

Im so glad to see Maryland being one of the first states to make change that the whole country will be shortly following in. I couldn't be more proud to say Im a Marylander and a UMD student than I am hearing we are finally giving people the equality they deserve.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

Cassie, you must learn the definition of equality. Man + man is not equal to man + woman. Only one is ordained by God, by history, and by nature.

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CB9678

12:34 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

Yes All-star but the State of Maryland is neither of those things! To clarify I am a praccticing Catholic and I find Homosexuality to be a practice not consistent with my religion. I also do not find state sanctioning of Marriage to be consistent with my faith. If you get married in a civil ceremony I do not, and my faith does not recognize your marriage in a religious context. Because of that the only benefit to a civil marriage is simply a tax basis.. That is why I find the religious arguement to be a moot point!

1ke

10:07 am on Friday, January 4, 2013

What's the A in Chick-fil-A stand for, Pamela?

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Wayne Earl Jones

4:25 pm on Friday, January 4, 2013

An I thought sodomy was illegal in this state, damn whats the world comin to?

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Casey

6:23 pm on Friday, January 4, 2013

If sodomy was illegal in Maryland, many straight couples as well as gay couples would be in trouble.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

Sodomy is disgusting either way!

Dale Thomas

10:47 am on Sunday, January 6, 2013

Marriage is an institution ordained by God. Since God says homosexual activity is an abomination the two are at odds. It may be a union recognized by the state but it aint a marriage folks. Mans laws don't trump Gods laws. Just puts us as a notion on the wrong side of the law. There are consequences to lawbreakers.

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Casey

1:59 pm on Sunday, January 6, 2013

Dale - God loves all of His children, gay and straight. The Bible does not condemn homosexuality when it is put in historical and cultural context and is read using reason, as Jesus did.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

Casey, you clearly need to reread the Gospels!

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Casey

12:34 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

AllStar - Jesus never spoke about homosexuality. I stand by my statement that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality when it is put in historical and cultural context and is read using reason, as Jesus did. If you disagree, please cite a verse.

Brian Ferri

1:52 pm on Sunday, January 6, 2013

Congrats to David and Casey, Joe and Don, and to the many other couples who have mnarried and will now be able to marry. This of course is awesome. Did I say awesome? Makes me PROUDer to be a MD resident.

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Brian Ferri

1:52 pm on Sunday, January 6, 2013

As far as the self righteous religious argument, the Bible is not a one-size fits-all. Case in point: Fred Phelps, pastor heading the Westboro Baptist Church, in Topeka, Kansas. This crazy nut, and his lunatic spawns, thinks they’re right by the Word-of-God. As do many people with Biblical Ignorance. I’m sorry – I don’t have patience for Anyone quoting the Bible.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

So you compare most Christians to the Westboro Baptist Church freaks...you are incredibly biased against Christianity my friend. Read the New Testament and pray for enlightenment.

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CB9678

12:34 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

No he is pointing out the wide variation in religious beliefs among Christians including those who recognize same sex marriages and even perform them!

Ed Baranowski

5:49 pm on Sunday, January 6, 2013

My best wishes to all the couples! We are ALL made in the image and likeness of God! As a 60 year old who is happily married, I respect people's dignity and their right to have a fluent life in this country. I have spent some time in the gay/lesbian/bi/transgender community in Rehoboth Beach, DE. I told my gay friend that I'm amazed how that community accepted me regardless I was happily married to my wife. They never downed me or persecuted my different beliefs on same sex marriage. We had intelligent subjective discussions on the subject. There are quite a few of older gay/lesbian couples who have been together longer than some heterosexual relationships. I never felt more accepted in their community and was treated the same as they wished to be treated. We are talking about human beings who want the best of happiness in their lives just like the heterosexual community. Again, all the best to ANY married couple and I hope they find peace, happiness, and fulfillment in their lives.

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AllStar

8:01 am on Monday, January 7, 2013

Great nations throughout history have fallen after perverse behavior became commonplace and accepted in their societies. Communists have been trying to get the American public to accept homosexuality in order to tear apart the family unit and weaken our Christian influence for decades. Jesus is clear in the Gospels about marriage only being between a man and woman. St. Paul warns us against the darkness and evils of homosexuality. As Christians, our faith and values should drive the policies which we wish to live under. There are very dangerous sequelae that will inevitably result from this one amendment. Religious institutions and priests will eventually lose their freedoms. Already, private business owners (e.g. cake company or photographers) cannot turn away homosexual couples on religious grounds or face lawsuits. There is much worse to come.

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CB9678

12:34 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

Allstar can you please provide examples of the great nations who fell because of preverse behavior? Can you also please cite the part of the Communist structure which has advocated for an acceptance of Homosexuality? Where in the gospel does Jesus clearly define marriage. I will admit that St. Paul does define marriage ithat way but Jesus does not! If you are going to thump on your Bible stop mis quoting it least you meet the fate of the warning provided at the end of Revalations! BTW the two buisnesses you cite provide public accomadations and we have laws about that. If a homosexual couple wanted to celebrate an anniversary of them dating before they where not free to decline it on the homosexual basis. What should change? Should hotels refuse rooms to an interracial couple on religious grounds?

Casey

1:09 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

AllStar - God is the author of all love. Who are you to call the love between 2 people of the same gender "perverse?" Jesus never spoke about homosexuality, but he did speak about not judging others. Matthew 7:1 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged."

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AllStar

7:57 am on Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Jesus talks about marriage in the Gospel of Matthew!
"Some Pharisees approached him, and tested him, saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any cause whatever?” He said in reply, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, no human being must separate.”
Matthew 19:3-6

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CB9678

11:58 am on Tuesday, January 8, 2013

A few points this is also the same passage.

"Matthew 19:3-6
King James Version (KJV)

3 The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?

4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,

5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."

It never defines marriage it never even uses the word. It also is never limiting. of that. This discusses the permissability of Divorce.

My final point is that even if we accept this as a biblical decree of a definition of marriage. When one files for a marriage liscence and goes to the court house you are not being joined by God. These people are not being joined by God.

Sal

3:20 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

I can't believe the rational and or logic used to defend gay marriage

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Casey

5:26 pm on Monday, January 7, 2013

Sal - I can't believe the rationale or logic used to DENY gay marriage.

AllStar

7:57 am on Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Unfortunately Sal, these people no longer believe in absolute truths. They seek to justify their own behavior by blurring the line between right and wrong.

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Casey

10:25 pm on Tuesday, January 8, 2013

AllStar - Injustice and inequality are wrong = Absolute truth.

AllStar

7:57 am on Tuesday, January 8, 2013

In response to CB:
1) e.g. The Roman Empire
2) Communist goal #26: Present homosexuality, degeneracy and promiscuity as "normal, natural, healthy." (from the Naked Communist, 1963).
3) Refer to the passage above
4) Your definition of freedom is completely different than mine or of our founding fathers.

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CB9678

11:58 am on Tuesday, January 8, 2013

1) The Roman Empire fell for many reasons. One has been listed as a moral decline. Christianity has also been cited as a reason for the fall of the Roman Empire. Does that mean that if a society embraces Christianity as the Roman Empire did it to is destined to fall? You said nations (plural) provide some more examples to support your claim.

2) The Naked Communist is not an objective annalysis of the goals of communism. Communism is an Economic philosophy. The author of this work also advocated to end the direct election of senators, remove the seperation of church and state, Thought Dwight Eisenhower was a communist, Claimed the US Elections from 1932-1968 where not legitimate, believed the Rockefellers conspired to rig the election of Jimmy Carter. In the book you cite he also Claims FDR delivered enriched Uranium to the USSR, Claimed Sputnik was hatched with stolen American plans, Claimed the Russians where implanting mind control divices to trigger pavlovian responses to take over the minds of the young. So consider the source.

Finally I am not definning freedom but letting you know that in this state the law does not permit a public accomadation to descriminate in who it provides services to.

Xgay Greg

4:13 pm on Thursday, February 7, 2013

I used to be gay, but over SEVEN years ago Jesus set me FREE! I am now free from the sin of homosexuality. Marriage is between 1 man and 1 woman according to the King James Bible (Genesis 2:24) so I am now married and my wife is pregnant by me. What's really cool is that now my life is not focused on "ME" I actually think about other's. More to the point, it's not about "ME" at all it's ALL about JESUS CHRIST! Jesus is Lord!!

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